Frequently Asked Questions

Traveling is one of our favorite activities - from a way-too-soon trip to Switzerland that cemented our relationship to many trips with friends and family all over the world, we love travel as a way to better connect with each other and the world around us.

After studying abroad in Madrid, Ahrim fell in love with the slow pace of life and focus on enjoying time with the people you love over long meals late into the night. She shared that love with Josh early in the relationship and after getting over his initial reluctance about the "girl who can't stop romanticizing her study abroad adventures" he was quickly seduced by oloroso sherry, jamón serrano, quality olives, and deliberate time spent with loved ones. Madrid has since become one of our favorite places away from home in Brooklyn.

As we thought about how we wanted to celebrate our marriage with the people we love the most, we realized we wanted that same spirit of slow time, quality food, and great conversation late into the night to permeate our wedding.

We know it’s a long journey, but we can’t imagine a better way to celebrate than by gathering in Toledo, exploring Spain side by side, and savoring time together — turning the fleeting moments of our wedding into memories we’ll treasure forever.

Wedding festivities begin on Saturday, May 23rd, and the wedding is taking place on Sunday, May 24th. We would recommend arriving at least 1-2 days before the big day - that gives you time to adjust, explore, and avoid sprinting from the airport in formalwear.

Madrid-Barajas International Airport (MAD) is your best bet. From there, it’s about a 30-minute train ride on the Avant from Madrid Atoacha station or a ~1-hour drive to Toledo. Check out our Travel & Stay page for more info.

We’ll be hosting welcome drinks for all guests on Saturday, May 23rd and a goodbye brunch on Monday, May 25th. More details to come!

We have more information on hotel suggestions here.

Please plan for cocktail attire. Outfit inspiration can to come soon, but wear whatever makes you feel beautiful :)

Yes! We’re totally cool with little ones joining the celebration. Toledo is a great city for families, and we’ll do our best to make sure the day is fun (and manageable) for guests of all ages. Just be sure to include them in your RSVP so we can plan accordingly.

Sunny, warm, and dreamy. May is one of the best times to visit Spain — think mid-70s (F) by day and cooler evenings perfect for dancing under the stars.